The one thing I hear a lot of is “I’m sorry.” What are you sorry about? Why are you sorry? Are you sorry for getting caught?
This is coming from episode after episode of cheaters. Most episodes about women usually have the same outcome. That outcome is the women who usually say “I’m sorry, but I did not want to hurt you.” So, they did not want to hurt the man’s feelings because he is a very nice guy. It’s funny that the guy they cheat on their boyfriend with is a bad boy. Why can’t they be honest and say the guy is just too nice and they need a man who is going to dog them out because that is what they are either used to or want? Ultimately, that is what the women are saying. Most women are attracted to the bad boy and have men who are too nice as an arm piece. They are usually in tears and want to talk about things after getting caught as they are afraid of being left out in the street from the home shared by their soon to be ex-boyfriend, yet they had no desire to talk before being caught. The women want to beg for forgiveness when they see two men fighting over them in the effort of finding the truth. They have the nerve to have their identity withheld because of what? They are not concerned with their identity while they are cheating. It is like someone in the Klu Klux Klan wearing a cheat to conceal their identity because they are afraid of getting chastise if their face is truly revealed. Although the police is the new Klu Klux Klan, but that is a different write.
I’m sorry, but I don’t fight another man over any woman. If a woman cheats on me, I am not taking it up with him, but with the woman because she knows better. I was raised to open doors for women. I was raised with treating women with respect. I was raised not to use the term “female” to describe a woman. A woman is a woman just like a man is a man.
Don’t get me wrong, men cheat too and they usually have the excuse of “it’s not like that” or “what are you doing?” This posting is not about the man cheating, but about the woman cheating. In reference of who finish last the question remains. Do nice guys finish last? Do women refuse to date a nice guy as the last man on this earth? Lots of younger women refuse to settle down with a nice guy. They want that bad boy. As they get older, they began to see the damage of their cheating as Karma comes back and bites them in the azz. All of this is a vicious circle that gets worse from generation to generation. In my experiences women have children at a very young age and they are forced to settle down a bit more due to the child. Now, they want a good man because their situation has changed. Is this what it takes to desire a good guy?
Some say nice guys finish first. Some say nice guys finish last. I say nice guys don’t finish at all; not even if he is the last man on this earth. I cannot wrap my brain to think how bad boys get the most attractive woman or have a collection of fine looking women, and men who really deserve a woman is left in the sea as shark bait. Most nice guys get the women that others don’t want. These women are usually extremely overweight. These women are usually not too educated. These women are those who are really not your type, but you are forced to date them because you cannot find a woman who is your type and you are getting older. These women have children and they cannot find the type of man they really want due to the change in their circumstance(s). Some tell me I am too picky, but answer me this question. Should I really lower my standards in order to date a woman who is very obese, not educated and cannot speak with proper English when the time calls for it, or have a village of children then realize other men are not attracted to them? Like other men and women, I want to be in love with a woman who is going to love me for me and care for me, but I believe I should not sell myself short to get what I really don’t want.
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